Voice
Without getting into too much detail, for me, religious practice is a little complicated. In part, it involves desperately avoiding any organized religous services (despite being fairly active members...
View ArticleSubtle shifts
I realized last week that I’d gone an entire day in which I was not gendered as female in any interaction (out loud anyway). Once I noticed that, I realized that I can’t exactly remember the last time...
View ArticleStrange moments of arrival
(1) I was traveling for a conference about a month ago, and as I walked to a city bus stop early on the morning of my departure, out of nowhere in an otherwise quiet city street a woman started to yell...
View ArticleForgetting
Yesterday, after putting it off for about a year, my religious community held a sort of naming ceremony for me. Our congregation is a small Jewish Havurah, and friends had long ago offered to lead a...
View ArticleGratitude
Gail and I have been writing here, about extremely personal matters, for over 6 years (off and on), in a highly public (if vaguely anonymous) way. But so much of what I’ve experienced as I’ve worked...
View ArticleBeing the only mom vs. being one of a pair
I have been chewing on this post for a long time. I am a non-gestational parent to my youngest child, Ira. I didn’t give birth to him, my husband Ezekiel did. When Ira was born, Ezekiel and I were...
View ArticleProviding Surgery Support to a Partner
Since Ezekiel wrote a post about top surgery, I decided to write my own. Supporting Ezekiel through surgery was harder for me than I expected it to be, and that makes me reluctant to discuss it. But I...
View ArticleBelonging
As Ezekiel wrote, we’re heading to Family Week 2014 in Provincetown next week. I find that my thoughts in anticipation of the trip are a bit complicated. We first went to Family Week when our daughter,...
View ArticleCOLAGE camp at Family Week, 2014
We’re back from Family Week 2014 in Provincetown, MA. There are any number of details I could tell you about the week (awesome: Leigh biking totally on her own all over town not awesome: mosquitos),...
View ArticleCall for Submissions: Essays by Transgender Parents
**CALL FOR SUBMISSIONS** Letters for our Children: Voices of Transgender Parents Edited by Jordan Rice and Nathan Ezekiel Due: January 20, 2015 We are seeking contributions for a book collection of...
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